True Love ?

总觉得无法把握爱情, 因为得把全部的精神专著于把握命运...还是我消极?

Human are visually attuned to beautiful things, even babies respond to beautiful people- babies will look at the person and smile.

I have been teaching in a secondary school for a month.
I get comments like,
"Teacher, you are pretty and nice, surely you have a boyfriend."
"Why didn't you get a boyfriend?"
"Teacher can't keep you company all the time, she would have a boyfriend."

They are truthful comments;
I could bear loneliness, but my heart had been broken, I don't think it will ever be entirely healed.
Every now and then, I do feel the pain in my heart, it is crying inside, though I knew it is getting better as time will heal the wounds.

What is true love ?
For couples who have successfully walked to the journey of marriage--is it out of convenience or just being used to each other?
What does it mean "meant for each other" ?
Is it possible to fall in love again without emotional baggages?
Is relationship an answer to happiness?
What is marriage?
For couples who have been together for a long time, do they take each other for granted and lose respect?
For a relationship to grow, does one need to have career stability?

To control my destiny, love becomes secondary. Am I pessimistic?
I still have my dreams to go after...in which I feel I am not the type to be rooted at one place. I still want to experience the world. I am prepared to uproot myself where ever my job goes. Job recognition gives me satistfaction and growth.

I guess I will leave it at this point and enjoy my life and stop pondering
...just SEIZE THE DAY -Carpe Diem :D