Sunday, February 19, 2006

3 folders...三个文件夹


脑子想的东西, 就好象没整理过的文件, 乱七八糟的.
我决定把生命规划为三个文件夹 : 快乐, 悲伤, 未知
简单地说:
<快乐的文件夹>就是成就, 成功的故事.
<悲伤的文件夹>就是伤感的故事.
<未知的文件夹>就是想破了头脑, 还是不明白和不知道的东西.
我想人是有选择的...尽量别去让自己的思索到难过的文件夹, 要活得尽兴点. :D

What are the three folders in my life?
"Happy folder" are stories and experiences about success, accomplishment.
"Sad folder" are stories and experiences which make our heart ache and cry.
"Unknown folder" are experiences in which it can't be explained at the moment.
Each time, our brain has a choice to retrieve a folder- whether to recollect good or bad memories about a person or an experience. So, be happy :D

Saturday, February 04, 2006

Being Happy





Being happy is a state of mind - one can drown into a quagmire of random worries
or immerse into an activity of enjoyment.
It boils down to "choice".

Many events can happen in a single day- we can be swayed by emotions as well.
Sometimes, we are cornered or caught in an unexpected situation and this can triggered off bad memories.
At this point, if we are quick to identify the cause of being upset and we can easily rectify our emotion and thereby avoid having a bad day.
It is important to have support from like-minded friends to remind who we are and what we are after in life.

An ancient Sanskrit verse puts the present and the past very well. Often I read the following verse to remind the very existence of myself , I copied it from somewhere during high school :

Look to this day.
For it is life,
The very life of life,
In its brief course lie all
The realities & truths of existence;
The joy of growth,
The splendour of action,
The glory of power,
For yesterday is but a memory,
& tomorrow is only a vision.
But today, well lived,
Makes every yesterday a memory of happiness,
And every tomorrow a vison of hope.
Look well, therefore to his day.